Nov 4, 2012

AND THEN....SHE LOST HER MIND

Dear Friends,

By the time you finish reading this post, you will be convinced that I have finally gone fully round the bend.  But bear with me for a minute, OK?

I'm pretty sure that I'm going to get this story totally wrong, but that's par for the course with me.  I remember bits and pieces of family stories and then I embellish and change and enhance them until they're properly epic and make memories that I finally think are worthy of those that have gone before me.  So if you're one of my family members reading this, and you see that I've got all of the details completely ass backwards, send me an email and I'll fix it.

The story is simple, really.  From what I know, my Grandpa Rich was getting a haircut one Saturday and he overheard a story about a family that had a little boy that needed a place to stay.  I think it had something to do with the little boy's health, and that this family (who was in Brooklyn), was trying to figure out how to get the little boy to Arizona.  My Grandfather was in the process of moving his own family to Arizona, so he spoke up and said "Have the little boy come with us, and I'll look after him for his family."  And so they did, and the little boy lived with Grandpa and Grandma and Dad and Aunt Lou, and the two families grew close and stayed in contact over the years, even after everyone had grown up and had families of their own.

I was in my 30's when I finally got to met "the little boy", and as I was asking him about how he was related to Dad -- thinking that he must have been a cousin or a long lost relative from Italy -- he told me that they were all complete strangers, but somehow my grandfather thought that when somebody needed something and you had that something to give, you just offered it and that was that.

I have a house.  It's not a very big house, and I'm pretty sure that most people would think that it's a house in need of a lot of...something, but nonetheless I have a house.  And it has two bedrooms and two bathrooms and a roof and hot water and a warm and cozy fireplace, and a few comfy chairs.  There are sheets and towels and pots and pans and sweaters and shoes and a whole lot of crap upstairs in the studio to keep a small army of craft obsessed villagers happy for a lifetime.  There are books and a TeeVee (or two) and an ornery little dog who promises to pick up all of his toys in the event that the "toys, toys, everywhere" look drives you as nuts as it does me.

If you've lost your house or your stuff or are about ready to lose your mind with the idea of having to put it all back together again and you need a place to catch your breath,  you've got it.  Aunt Chrissy and I know that you'd probably rather be there with your friends and your families and that you'd probably want to be there to start the recovery process, but if not and you just need a place to have a hot cup of coffee and a few days to get your wits about you, then please, let us know and we will be happy to help you in any way we can.

There.  I did it.   It's been on my mind for almost a week now, and I finally figured that I had nothing to lose by telling you that in the whole scheme of things, I know it's not much, but it's what I know how to do.  My email address is spinsterstitcher@aol.com.   Please give it to anybody who might need it.

Take care,
Coni

27 comments:

  1. That is the sweetest thing I've read in a long time. And it's not "not much", it's a whole lot. I am touched by this. Thank you.

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  2. I think you are amazing and kind and sweet. Is it wrong for me to want to go through your crafts? Seriously, what a generous thing to do!

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  3. And on a side note - HOLY COW that dog has a lot of toys!

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  4. Coni, you're the most crazy-wonderful person in the world!

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  5. Hi Coni,
    Lost your mind? I think NOT! What an incredibly kind and generous offer you are making. Sounds like it runs in the family. Be proud of yourself. I don't know you, but I'M proud of you!!

    -Sherry-

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  6. You are simply amazing. Blessings to you!

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  7. This is really wonderful. It brought tears to my eyes. You and Aunt Chrissy are very giving and kind. Oh, and your little dog too! :)

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  8. Wow, what a wonderful thing you are doing! You are so giving! You are one special lady!
    Amy from Oklahoma

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  9. what a kind and special person you are

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  10. Oh Coni. I think you are about the sweetest girl I know. I'm a little overwhelmed at your generosity, and still...not actually surprised at all. You're a beautiful person. I think anyone would be blessed to have you in their life.
    Please, though: be careful. We all love you.

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  11. ohhhh that is such a lovely post .... and a wonderful gesture :) love mouse xxxx

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  12. Well God bless Grandpa and God bless YOU!

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  13. God Bless you and Aunt Chrissy, Coni. Cathryn

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  14. Your Heart and Soul are awesome!!! Reading this made me feel really good. Bless you...

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  15. Your grandfather's kindless lives on in you. God bless you!

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  16. How did you know that I needed to escape for just a few days?

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  18. What a wonderful idea you are the greatest. I am thinking you also may end up with a FOREVER FRIEND. Bonnie

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  19. You are such a giving person and you will be much rewarded for it. I know as I've been rewarded about a gazillion times over for giving comfort to strangers. God will truly bless you as you are blessing others.

    Shiela

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  20. The world needs more people like you... oh crazy Spinster Stitcher!! You are a wonderful human being, and a blessing to others....

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  21. What a lovely gesture Coni! You & Aunt Chrissy: you're good people!
    :)

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  22. You rock. Everyone should lose their mind like this. God bless you!!

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  23. How sweet!! You are just the best!!!!

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  24. Wow. No, you are not crazy..you are just very loving and a precious person.

    Debbie in Kansas

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  25. Do we have to be a victim of Sandy to come for a visit??

    In all seriousness, what a lovely offer, and a great story about your relative.

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  26. Coni, you are wonderful and beyond generous! Thanks for reminding me there are truly lovely people in this world. ((hugs)) to you and kisses to Stewey...

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