Feb 21, 2019

SPINSTERDAY

I decided to make Thursday my very own day of the week to do whatever the heck my pitiful little heart desires. I know it seems like I make EVERY day of the week like that, but the truth is that I feel very overwhelmed with the loss of so much time that used to be spent sitting in the Happy Chair looking out the window.

It feels selfish and decadent and completely over indulgent, but I went from having a very very quiet solitary life to having people and noise and chaos and confusion in my face 24/7.  I wasn't exactly what you would call a social butterfly to begin with, so all of this leaving the house business has me looking for my turtle shell and peace and quiet again.

So today I will visit with Dr. Melfi and talk about why I am such a nutjob whackado, and then I might take myself to the library or the House of Stitches for a little more Spinster therapy. Anyplace that lets me fold back into myself a bit and just...be still and happy...sounds perfect to me.

I stitched my eyeballs out yesterday and finished another heart. I am now heading to the lower right corner and then up and back across the piece before giving up:

At least I think so.

All of that could change if something else strikes my fancy.

Tomorrow will be back to the grindstone, but today is all about having a little rest and respite. Tuna steak and salad for dinner tonight and maybe a little walk in the sunshine for some freash air and exercise.

Not a bad way to go, Dearies. Not bad at all. 

Come tell me about your very own day and what you do to self indulge. If you don't and think I'm being even MORE of a big fat lazy spoiled princess, come tell me that too. Either way...I hope it's swell and that you get to do something that makes you happy!

21 comments:

  1. I think it's wonderful for you to make Thursdays just for you! You need it and deserve it!

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  2. Nothing wrong with taking time away from constant interaction to recharge. Introverts get their energy from being by themselves. If you don't have those quiet times, you won't have the energy you need to live the rest of your life! Enjoy your Thursday!

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  3. Well said, introverts. It's essential for me to have some time alone with my thoughts and my pastimes, to recharge and process everything. I'm a better partner, mom and grandma for it. Do what you need Coni.

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  4. I used to work as a dialysis nurse, and I always thought the most difficult part for me (if I ever end up in kidney failure) would be being forced to sit in a chair in the middle of so many people for 18 hours per week. I'm sure extroverts can't understand it, but us introverts find that kind of thing crazy making. Do whatever you need to do to cope...I'm behind you all the way!

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  5. Enjoy your day doing whatever makes you happy! Many blessings, LaNelle

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  6. You have every right to recharge your batteries. We introverts need the down-time so we can deal with life so to speak and with medical problems on top of that, it's even more necessary. I am very happy you are taking care of you :) Enjoy your day and I hope it will inspire others to do the very same :)

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  7. whether you are introvert or extrovert it doesn't matter. Everyone needs time to meditate the way that benefits them to get back to their centering. Good work realizing what would work for you! You got this!!!!

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  8. I agree that everyone needs time for themselves! Do what you want and when. But above all, take care of you!

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  9. Peace and quiet and some alone time is highly underrated, my dear. Go and enjoy. Many, many of us truly wish we could do the same today. Being alone is not being lonely. -psv

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  10. I think it's a fantastic idea to make Thursdays all about you and doing whatever strikes your fancy! I think I'll try that, too. Thanks for the grand idea!

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  11. Why do women feel such guilt when they take time for themselves? Men think nothing of doing it all the time. I hope the younger generations equal it out more. Enjoy your quiet time and grab it every chance you get.Loving the hearts. Can't wait to see the finish.You stitch so fast and it turns out beautiful. Envy.

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  12. Mostly, I treat myself to nice teas and books--lots and lots of both.

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  13. Naps, Coni, Naps. That's my retired self indulgence. I am handicapped and it started resting my aching body, but now my naps are 'mini vacations' and a friend of mine sighs and says "it doesn't get any better than this." I believe he is right. ;) Love, hugs & prayers, Cathryn ♥♥♥

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  14. I think you are wonderful, brave and have learned how to take care of you. I know how crazy all this medical stuff can be. I wasn't the sick one. My daughter is 3 1/2 years clear of oral cancer. The day she was diagnosed at the age of 26 we have been joined st the hip. Ever since that day it has been constant trips to surgeon, oncologist, plastic surgeon, pain management, dentist, PT, speech therapy, etc. Now some months 1 doctor some 2 or 3 and scans. I treasure the days I can sit and stitch and hold up at home with my puppies. No judgement here my friend. Do what you need to do for you.
    Hugs
    Rose

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  15. Friday is my day that is all about me. I get together with 5 friends and we quilt. Have done this for years and have made so many quilts I've lost count. You have started me on a new quest. Saw your stitching and thought 'Yeah I use to cross stitch but it's so difficult'. The timing must have been right because for the last 3 months I've been cross stitching. Discovered 123 Stitch, bought a bunch of really cute patterns, and have been stitching a lot! I've done a little quilting but really cross stitch has taken me over. Love it. Haven't used beads or buttons because I frame (under glass) everything. It has become such a relaxing comfort to me. Thanks for the inspiration. Patty Mc

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    1. Even with beads and such, you can have your pieces framed under glass. A good framer with needlework experience will have no trouble.

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  16. I need alone time and also stitching or creating time to re-charge the batteries.

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  17. Almost every Faith has a "Sabbath" day of rest...a day given
    over to quiet, peace and personal contemplation...a day set
    aside and sacrosanct.. no apologies, just a given... we seem to have lost the essence of that special time of rest and renewal... How much healthier we would be if we dedicated one
    day to searching ourselves for contentment and peace.. off
    the soap box... back to you Coni...cherish your day.

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  18. Even preschoolers know the importance of quiet time resting on a mat to get them through re-charged, and as adults we’d be a much better off acknowledging that we still need quiet mat time to ourselves to recharge, now and then...enjoy yours and make no excuses!

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  19. I am only a half hour away from House Of Stitches. From what I can tell you and I don't live that far from each other.

    Its always nice to take time out for yourself and do what you want when you want to. I have a special place that I go to when I want to get away from everything and just enjoy my peace and quiet and be myself.

    If you get to House Of Stitches before I do tell them that I said Hi.

    Happy Stitching
    Linda K, Buttercup

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  20. You so deserve a day to yourself! I hope you enjoyed every second of it :) And your heart looks fabulous!

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