Oct 6, 2021

NEW DIGS


Sorry for the lack of updates, Dearies, but the last few days have been a bit overwhelming. I was discharged yesterday, and with that came a lot of appointments with various people who tried to walk me through my new life, and to put it mildly...I am overwhelmed.

Physically, the pain is keeping me humble. The incision is about a foot and a half long and extends from my lower right side on a diagonal across my tummy and then concludes south of my belly button in the far nether regions that I cannot see...thank goodness.

I confess to being nervous, scared, sad, frustrated, and a little impatient at times, but I'm told that this is all to be expected in these initial days of healing. I've taken to chanting a mantra..."I was blessed with a new kidney and have been given a new life" to keep myself from wallowing, because the truth of the matter is that regardless of how rough this might be...it's a miracle of love that I accept gratefully.

I will hopefully learn more about my angel donor in the coming months. At the moment, all I know is that his gift of his kidneys saved two of us last week, and no matter anything else about him...that is extraordinary.

Your love, support, and encouragement got me here. I am so happy to tell you that when we discussed all of the medications I will be on and their connected costs, I was able to take that in without panic thanks to you. So, you too, literally gave me a new life. For that and so many other things, I thank you.

My afternoon pain med is going to work its magic in a moment, so I'll close for now. I hope this finds you well and happy and with flying needles! I can't wait to get mine back in hand!



53 comments:

  1. It’s wonderful to get an update Coni! I know I’ve been praying that all is well and that you are slowly improving. My cousin had a liver transplant over 30 years ago, and things do get better. Plus it won’t seem as overwhelming. So rest up and know that good thoughts continue to come your way!!

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  2. Good to see those ten toes in the big girl sleigh bed!!! Rest and take care of yourself, be the #1 priority for a change!!

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    1. She is recovering in a hotel for at least a month.

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  3. So good to hear from you. Allow yourself the time to heal and, as said above, make yourself your top priority. Life really is a miracle! This donor saved two of you. Hurray for you and the other person. God bless you and be encouraged that this will get much better.

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  4. Thanks for the update! Take it slow and listen to your doctors, nurses, aides, what have you. With their help, you'll make it through this recovery time. Stay on top of the pain meds. It's the only way to manage it.

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  5. I’m so glad to hear from you! (Not that I’m a worrier 😁). Relax and heal. I’m sure it’s overwhelming right now but you’ll get it and the pain will reduce before too long. I’ll be thinking of you every day!!

    Lynn

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  6. How kind you are to thank your humble followers Coni... you are indeed an upstanding human being. Sleep gently, heal and sip and walk sip and walk. Stewey is at your shoulder and would like to lick your ear. Ruth in Oxnard CA>

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  7. Thank you for taking the time to update us. I've been thinking of you and hoping that all is going well.

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  8. So glad that you are on the other side. Just take whatever time you need and know that prayers are still coming.

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  9. Thanks for the updates. You are the epitome of grace under pressure with the humble transparency of your human-ness. You are a blessing to all, especially those that will and have walked a similar journey to the one you are experiencing. God BLESS you.

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  10. I was so happy to see those little toes resting in bed!!! Thank you for taking a moment to let us know how you are doing. Rest, stay ahead of the pain and before you know it, all will be well. Eat, get plenty of fluids and rest. Your body is healing from the inside and that takes time...and patience. Take care, dear Spinny. Prayers continue. Ellen in Massachusetts

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  11. Glad you're home and mending! Thanks for the update.

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    1. She will need to stay in Indy for awhile.

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  12. So happy to read this update! You’ve been on my mind frequently the last few days. Continued prayers going out to you for a quick recovery. ❤️

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  13. So very glad to see that update! One day at a time, and you'll soon be home. Bless you

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  14. Thank you so much for the update! I worry way too much so really appreciate the effort to post. Please take care of yourself and take advantage of all help that is offered to you. Your whole life is changing so be gentle with yourself. Hugs and prayers!

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  15. WONDERFUL! WONDEREFUL! WONDERFUL!

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  16. So happy to read this update. I tried not to worry, and kept telling myself that no news was good news, but truth be told, I was a bit worried. continued prayers and good thoughts!

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  17. You are a trouper! I join all your other friends in the stitching world expressing gratitude for you post today. I know you've got this even on the difficult days. The future looks bright! Peace and Love.

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  18. I was thrilled to see your update and continuing to pray for your healing. It’s been said above already but bears repeating….let your body heal without rushing it, drink lots of fluids and make sure to stay on top of that pain by taking the meds before you start hurting. Most importantly, know you are loved and we will all be here still whenever you feel like blogging….well maybe not Betty but the rest of us will be.

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  19. Remember TTT. Things Take Time! So glad you are out of the hospital!

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  20. So happy to read your update! I've been thinking about you all week.

    I'm sure overwhelmed is exactly how you're supposed to be feeling right now. Give yourself permission to not have it all figured out or fully processed.

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  21. What amazing progress! Rest up and know you’re receiving continued prayers for a peaceful, stress free recovery.

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  22. We really needed to see your little feet....er....HEAR from you again, Coni. Surgery is very hard and your emotions will be all over the map, which is OK. Know that when you can't be strong on your own, you've got a community of us helping carry you. And indeed, God bless your donor and his family.

    Much love-p.

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  23. Glad to hear you are home. Remember to take each day one-at-a-time. My SIL's little brother got a new kidney a couple of years ago and I remember him being a bit overwhelmed at first as well. You would never know now as he has had time to adjust.

    Take care and remember to enjoy the day! So glad you are home!

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    1. She's in Indy still and will be for awhile. Happy she's out of the hospital!

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  24. Rest rest rest - do every single thing that they ask you to do - - and keep a note book to hand and write everything down so you don't forget stuff - - and can go back to the Dr's and therapists later if you need more clarification - - - but most importantly - - invest this time in recovery and recuperation - - and it will stand you in good stead!!! - but lovely to see you out of acute care.

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  25. What she said....(WAH above)

    So happy to see you out of the hospital! So soon!

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  26. So happy to hear an update and I'm incredibly happy for for you. Rest and get better. You'll be crossing those exes and stitching those specialty stitches in no time.

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  27. So happy to hear you are on your way to a more normal life. Bless you and your donor.

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  28. I know updates will be sporadic, but I hope 2 things from them - that writing down your thoughts to us helps you by vandalizing them and that our comments and continued prayers bring comfort to you!

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    1. I don't think I typed "vandalized"- I meant "verbalize" so sorry!

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    2. I'm glad I'm not the only one wondering who the heck selected the words on those autocorrect change lists. It's a wonder my back space keys aren't worn out. They certainly aren't stitchers or gardeners!

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  29. Coni dear, did JB ever mention what beautiful arches your feet
    have...? Bless you for the update...good to hear that although
    you face such overwhelming realization in contemplating what you have been through and what great positive changes await you, our Coni is back with her courage, humility and her heart
    focused on redeeming the gift of life she received from a young man and his family. All those emotions surging through
    your being are to be expected and they will subside and give
    way to calm, joy and serenity of the spirit, once the healing
    has progressed. "Be still and know that I am God" He's had
    you in His keeping through it all and continues to be with you. Rest and heal in Him, dear one.


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  30. I was wondering how you are. You will get through this, even though it’s painful and overwhelming, with the same attitude you’ve had during your time on dialysis. One day at a time, or if that’s too much, just concentrate on doing the next thing.

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  31. So wonderful to hear from you! God is in control and he will guide you through the healing and emotional process. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🏻

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  32. Coni . . . SO WONDERFUL TO HEAR!!! If you think about it, your entire body has been "shut down and re-started". This is always overwhelming and a bit disorienting. Focus on one hour at a time. I am so delighted that this loving donation has been possible for you and for another. What a gift, indeed. Thanks for the update . . . you have been on my mind and in my prayers. - Marcia

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  33. Each day will get better, you're so strong.
    Thank you for the updates. You remain in my prayers,

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  34. We are trusting every day will be even better than the last. So glad you are on the road to recovery!

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  35. So glad you're doing well. Things will get easier day by day. Prayers and good healthy thoughts being sent to you every day, throughout the day. You got this dear Spinster!

    Luv,

    MaryO

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  36. May God bless you Coni. There’s some very good advice written here already. Just take your time - and remember everyone heals at different rates x Lesley

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  37. You are a rock star! My cousin had a kidney transplant years ago and is doing great. It's overwhelming at first but you'll get it straight and your JB will help. Congratulations on your new life!!! (((hugs)))

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  38. Connie I have followed your blogs for a long time. You are so strong and always come through everything that life has thrown at you. You will get through this and be even stronger and have a wonderful new way of life to look forward to. Take each day as it comes as you always have done. Lots of love and very best wishes to you and JB.xx

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  39. Thanks so much for the update Coni, it's lovely to hear from you. Just focus on the here and now, give yourself the same love and kindness that you give to everyone else. You are in our thoughts, sending much love to you xx

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  40. It's so wonderful to hear from you! Please hang in there and know deep in your heart that there are lots and lots of us cheering and praying for you! Sending love and hugs -- Barbara

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  41. So happy to hear that you are progressing. Transitions are always difficult, as you know. Continued prayers for your recovery.

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  42. Glad to see you have been let out of the hospital! I've been thinking of you lots!

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  43. Happy to hear you were able to be released! Rest up friend you will be stitching in no time!

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  44. So wonderful to see your update, and hear your great progress! I'm sure that feeling overwhelmed is to be expected, and know that things will be better each day. Continued prayers for you and JB.
    Mary

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  45. Happy news, thank you for the update and to find out another person was also saved by your angel. Such wonderful gifts and he lives on. So you rest in the meantime and continue to get better and before long you'll be home.

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  46. Great news!! No wonder you are overwhelmed! Whisked from thrice weekly dialysis (actually in the chair!) to Indie, prepped for immediate surgery, in and out of ICU…wow! And, all the while, thinking about your generous and wonderful donor. We will keep praying for you! Debbie in Kansas

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  47. What a miracle! I got a little verklempt when you mentioned your Angel donor. The donors truly are Angels. Take your time, follow doctor's orders, and just take one day at a time. You'll get there!

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