* ADDED SUNDAY MORNING AFTER READING COMMENTS
Dear Anonymous Friends:
I apologize.
I really am sincerely sorry for offending you by the junk food post. More importantly, however, I really am sorry that I a) bought all of the damn stuff in the first place and then b) made a half-assed joke about it all in the second.
You are right, and I 100% agree with you. I owe you more, I owe myself more, and I owe Rich more by not thinking bingeing on stuff that's bad for us is a "treat".
So please accept my heartfelt apology and feel free to contact me directly if you'd like to discuss further, or you are certainly welcome to continue to join me here.
I'm going to take a little break and get my head and heart in a better place.
Coni
The Spinster Stitcher
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Sorry to alarm, disappoint, and upset you, Dearies. I honestly didn't think the junk food picture would offend so many, but never fear...those items were purchased for JB as an Easter treat and my comments about resisting them was an attempt at a bit of Spinster humor that obviously fell completely flat.
Many of you have asked me about the performance of The Passion. There are several places online where you can watch it...I think YouTube is your best bet. The choir toured the East Coast in March and then performed it on campus last night out on the South Quad.
We're heading out for dinner and then Easter Vigil Mass in the Basilica tonight, so I'm going to scoot and get myself ready.
Happy Easter!
Happy Easter to you and JB!
ReplyDeleteThere were comments bashing the people who commented on the junk food. A lot of people have followed you for years through your weight loss, weight gain, illnesses, waited by for a kidney and finally getting it. I don't think anyone was being judgemental. We just care about you and after all you have been through don't want to see you go down the rabbit hole again. To be honest you often say you slid off your diet and overdid it. This is a public blog where Coni has the guts to bare her weaknesses and strengths. I don't think it is out of line to comment nicely if we have concerns.
ReplyDelete((Coni)) We were concerned. It’s easier to stay quiet than it is to express that concern and be called out with a ‘judge much’ snarkism from an anonymous “Betty” that I saw as a response to the last post. I’ll be quiet now.
ReplyDeleteI was concerned too and chose to be silent for fear of the snarks. Thanks for being more brave.
DeleteThank you ❤️
DeleteWe’ve invested in you, by listening, caring, and even through the donation of money, we’ve cried for you and laughed with you…therefore we continue to support you, and that requires honesty. However, by snarky comments, like “judge much,” they only negate this honesty, and inserts it’s own judgement, which does nothing but put a stop to anyone feeling comfortable enough to be honest. Coni, neither you nor your BJ need that food in the apartment, and whether it was for him or you, we cared enough to be honest with you. I’m staying anonymous, as is my right as I have never felt comfortable commenting because of the mean Betties who guard your blog. I’m moving on, best of luck.
ReplyDeleteWell said
DeleteHappy Easter to you and JB!
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter. Debby in CO
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong with treats in moderation. Believe me, I have and still am struggling with weight issues for the last 35 years. The secret to me is not to feel deprived. So have some treats. Instead of 5 pieces of candy, have 1. Or 1 day of falling off isn't horrible but 1 month is. Its just that having all that within reach is very tempting. You know we are saying this out of love, not bashing.
ReplyDeleteI am curious if the people who expressed their concern about treats ever provide positive reinforcement on posts that Coni makes that show all the veggie prep and other healthy food. It would be nice to build her up. But I guess that's not why you're here, huh? And it seems like one poster is suggesting Coni made the "snarky" posts, when it is anonymous after all, and who knows? Anyway, Coni is human like the rest of us, and we all slide sometimes. Have a great day!
ReplyDeleteUm, no? No one said it was Coni that made the snarky ‘judge much’ comments. ‘Betty’ is the generic name Coni has given to the cranky on the board. And for you to infer that expressing concern and a hug is tearing someone down is simply wrong. You have a nice day too!
DeleteIf you look for an offense in every comment you’ll find one, nitpicking and inserting yourself as the queen of interpretation as to the meaning behind a comment, especially one of concern, is tiresome and ignorant. You may feel righteous by pointing out your opinion, but you’re wrong and foolish, and a real friend is someone who tells you the truth, no matter what. Move along
DeleteUm, no? No one said it was Coni that made the snarky ‘judge much’ comments. ‘Betty’ is the generic name Coni has given to the cranky on the board. And for you to infer that expressing concern and a hug is tearing someone down is simply wrong. You have a nice day too!
ReplyDeleteHi Coni - I missed your previous post but could care less if I did. I am just happy you were kind enough to think of Rich to treat him to something special. I am also glad you shared your humor with us. Please don't ever stop doing either - treating someone special to you, and sharing your beautiful sense of humor - and honesty :) You are liked and loved (at least by me) however you are :) Laura
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 4/8 9:11 pm seems to me she/he/it is placing the blame for snarky comments on Coni. She has no control over what people post, other than perhaps to delete. "Betty" is the bad guy, yes; why would she be posting snark at you and not Coni? And I didn't say you were "tearing her down." I suggested building her up. You aren't the only one posting, so don't make everything about you.
ReplyDeleteI’ll help you, Betty, in the comment you’re referring to if you read from, “However,” onward, that was about you…it’s adorable that you interpreted it as a reference to Coni, and quite imaginative. How you got there, is interesting, but hey, you’ve put a lot more time and thought into this all than I have. I couldn’t care less what you think and who or what I am is none of your business, but again you’re adorable to think I care. I won’t be back, so you win simple minded fool, life is too short to waste on dribble.
DeleteJust realized I better break that last sentence down for you, the part where I referenced “dribble” and simple minded fool,” that was about you, not Coni, but you Betty dear.
DeleteHave a fabulous Easter Coni and Mr JB. Glad you are out of hospital too.
ReplyDeleteKerry xxx
Are we now self appointed junk food sheriffs? I think we are all aware moderation is key.
ReplyDeleteConi - we all stumble at times and you certainly don’t need food shaming to make you feel bad. I’ve been fighting food most of my life, and I know that sometimes a little treat will last a long time in the battle. Take care of yourself but remember - Julie Child lived well into her nineties and her motto was “Everything in moderation.”
ReplyDeleteExcept butter. Julia didn’t eat butter in moderation and I adore her for it.
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