tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post3091264663352824135..comments2024-03-29T11:08:08.378-04:00Comments on SPINSTER STITCHER: TUESDAY BLUES...Conihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04019863597169674976noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-43460909816349158422017-03-23T21:19:46.092-04:002017-03-23T21:19:46.092-04:00Oh dear you are not an idiot. You have a lot going...Oh dear you are not an idiot. You have a lot going on and sometimes a good cry is the only way to let it all out. Hugs and continued prayers. Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052334274494292848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-950780679882108952017-03-23T13:09:01.467-04:002017-03-23T13:09:01.467-04:00Sometimes you have to cry! I am glad you have some...Sometimes you have to cry! I am glad you have someone to talk to and that good advice is provided--you are not crazy just have a shit ton of stuff on your plate.....<br /><br />Enjoy the heck out of the guild. <br />Take care of you!Lisa Longhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08659286396072310415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-91501254505283741052017-03-23T06:24:30.621-04:002017-03-23T06:24:30.621-04:00Oh Coni, I do know what you are going through. It ...Oh Coni, I do know what you are going through. It is perfectly normal to be going on with life and then something will smack you when you least expect it. Grief after you lose someone is damned hard, it doesn`t matter if they were human or not. I still grieve the loss of every pet I have had, it just gets a little less intense. Give yourself time, be kind to yourself and do what you enjoy for distraction. It will get easier. ((((hugs))))~mj~https://www.blogger.com/profile/08539840287964685499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-28992702290862915952017-03-22T21:42:40.922-04:002017-03-22T21:42:40.922-04:00oh, our Coni, I cannot imagine a year filled with ...oh, our Coni, I cannot imagine a year filled with your<br />trials while stuffing it down and beaming with smiles ..<br />but you held up and when you had to, you let go, took leave on the sleigh bed, created beauty, shared great <br />humor, then bounced back...Why you bemoan pulling up the covers and stopping the world for awhile perplexes me...<br />What you are experiencing is so human, so understandable.<br />The working through, I hope, is enhanced by this circle of<br />loving Friends who admire you so and reach out to you in<br />love and comfort. The Guild tonight should lift your spirits and redirect your hopes...The good Dr. is correct.<br />Just be...for what you are and how you manage is just wonderful.....<br />Heritage Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11815336926966002348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-54261958028287690432017-03-22T15:47:05.158-04:002017-03-22T15:47:05.158-04:00Hang in there Coni..and as the phrase on my coffee...Hang in there Coni..and as the phrase on my coffee mug states" This, too, shall pass". You have an awful lot on your plate right now,,just take a day at a time and I promise, you will make it through,,and as for being an idiot, no idiot could write as well as you do..you have a real gift..you make my day each and every time I read your blog!!You GO Girl !!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-83401598514330869522017-03-22T13:54:13.750-04:002017-03-22T13:54:13.750-04:00Hope your outing to Grocery Guild improved your sp...Hope your outing to Grocery Guild improved your spirits. Just try to take things one day at a time. Thankfully, stitching has a way of relaxing people. I know it does, for me. Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.<br />CarolynStitchinowlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02547209451120677277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-51755869079078435582017-03-22T11:27:15.356-04:002017-03-22T11:27:15.356-04:00Sometimes we come up against something in our live...Sometimes we come up against something in our lives that we just can't get around. We can't buy, cry, whine, talk or beg ourselves out of it. The realization that the only way forward, is to go through it, is terrifying. I call it hitting the wall. No one can do it for you; all the love and support in the world doesn't change the fact that you alone have to do this thing.<br />You, my dear, have hit the wall. Whatever helps you complete this challenge is up to you, be it crying, stitching, blogging - they all are ways to help you accept what you must. Do this thing, and come out on the other side stronger and healthy.spendsisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08282684198671934593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-71431337888637285212017-03-22T11:05:27.793-04:002017-03-22T11:05:27.793-04:00I hope your trip to Grocery Guild helped put a smi...I hope your trip to Grocery Guild helped put a smile on your face. Hugs!!Khristine Doironhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13615745279877761656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-21081406165702398132017-03-22T11:04:15.969-04:002017-03-22T11:04:15.969-04:00Hi, I've been reading your blog and you sound ...Hi, I've been reading your blog and you sound like a lot of fun. However, today you probably don't feel like a lot of fun. Anywho, just keep putting one foot in front of the other and plugging along. Jane in PAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08998303652444461157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-4599145010015330972017-03-22T10:24:55.650-04:002017-03-22T10:24:55.650-04:00For goodness sake! Speaking about being the villag...For goodness sake! Speaking about being the village idiot! I thought Anonymus was encouraging us (to include Coni) to join a dating service? I was silently thinking, "How rude!" while Googling Be the Match.....I can't believe I am admitting this.Ms Peppercornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12734921664386422403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-75072740774431907962017-03-22T09:56:59.110-04:002017-03-22T09:56:59.110-04:00I'm wiping the tears off my fat face and wishi...I'm wiping the tears off my fat face and wishing I could be there to make you a damned good cup of coffee and give you a perfect neck rub. Ms Peppercornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12734921664386422403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-57460386837346746502017-03-22T09:49:48.580-04:002017-03-22T09:49:48.580-04:00Bless your heart, Coni. I've always been told ...Bless your heart, Coni. I've always been told that feelings are neither right nor wrong. They just are. Your stitchy piece is beautiful. Enjoy what you can. Do what makes you smile. Love, hugs & prayers, Cathrynblueladiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02287025833688878868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-51829587753752985552017-03-22T09:14:56.698-04:002017-03-22T09:14:56.698-04:00I don't think you give yourself enough credit ...I don't think you give yourself enough credit Coni. You are a very strong, creative, funny woman who has had quite a few yucky things hit her at one time. It could be any one of us...and I just hope we would have half the of the same courage, strength and wit as you. Hang in there, don't be so hard on yourself. You will heal in time. Prayers and good thoughts coming your way!Theresa Yhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16226952474166295533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-56649975947588176232017-03-22T08:32:15.016-04:002017-03-22T08:32:15.016-04:00Dear Coni, Sending you a huge hug. You have so muc...Dear Coni, Sending you a huge hug. You have so much going on in addition to losing your best pal. It takes alot of time to heal and adjust. You are amazing and so inspiring. Thanks so much for sharing and for continuing to be you.Wandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03950566497869582216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-29763832514107868102017-03-22T03:44:37.990-04:002017-03-22T03:44:37.990-04:00Everyone's life is an emotional roller-coaster...Everyone's life is an emotional roller-coaster sometimes; only the dimensions differ. And the only way out is through. As you are discovering ... nobody ever said that life was fair, but as long as our coping mechanisms work at least some of the time, cope we do. So far, you're pretty well like most of us reading this. The difference is that, even if we were all successful, well-adjusted, brilliant rock stars (I wish!), we still wouldn't stitch as well as you. You give us something to aim for, and that's important.Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11638789928305768720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-17228432347393126182017-03-22T03:22:35.761-04:002017-03-22T03:22:35.761-04:00It's quite alright to cry, miss your little gu...It's quite alright to cry, miss your little guy, feel frustrated with fate, and also to share it all all. Be assured you're not alone and you are no idiot. You are so much stronger than you know. Sending hugs!!Mari Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05348067501106741420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-49093448291983646542017-03-22T00:02:50.359-04:002017-03-22T00:02:50.359-04:00Sending lots of hugs and love, dear stitchy friend...Sending lots of hugs and love, dear stitchy friend. LKICThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12634806759492379921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-19922069799118183602017-03-21T23:14:48.960-04:002017-03-21T23:14:48.960-04:00Can I encourage everyone to go sign up with Be The...Can I encourage everyone to go sign up with Be The Match - for Coni and everyone else who's waiting for a new part? Not trying to advertise, but to give an idea for something positive to do.<br /><br />We heart you - hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-11443503292718327072017-03-21T22:48:09.901-04:002017-03-21T22:48:09.901-04:00Always thinking of you. Take one day at a time and...Always thinking of you. Take one day at a time and be kind to yourself.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09013741487850845405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-70917698494284369542017-03-21T20:58:36.715-04:002017-03-21T20:58:36.715-04:00Coni, you have it together more than you think. Wh...Coni, you have it together more than you think. What do you think you would be if you didn't get all the sorrow, sadness and pain out. It is healthier to get it out. I know you miss your boy so. I still cry over my passed furrballs. Tears are a sign of great love, they are the price of love. You have been dealing with a lot of major things. Keep the faith!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-28294096286890380722017-03-21T19:12:50.245-04:002017-03-21T19:12:50.245-04:00Ah, good advice to just be! Go enjoy your guild to...Ah, good advice to just be! Go enjoy your guild tonight. Sometimes just getting out of the house and being with people who have the same interests can make all the difference in our outlook. Have a wonderful night. PS if you can do Netflex, watch the season 1 of Frankie & Grace. (2 of my least fav actors but oh my goodness, the show is great) I laughed till I had to hold my stomach! There are 3 seasons, but so far the first is the best! It will put a smile on your face...I promise!!Connie Anzelonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17152295034090115466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-25958416128122581472017-03-21T18:58:02.608-04:002017-03-21T18:58:02.608-04:00Coni darling Ive found that some days are just be... Coni darling Ive found that some days are just better upside down other days I just hide in the closet with a bag of chocolate & the light off.<br />It'll all work out in the end.<br />Blessings,BaaUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01525278519906163291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-50977961502413647522017-03-21T18:39:06.102-04:002017-03-21T18:39:06.102-04:00All the above is good advice. It really helps to w...All the above is good advice. It really helps to watch only comedies on TV.<br />Lots of hugs for a great person((( )))!!!Grandma Andihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11601314322051448634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-53169425895588858942017-03-21T18:32:01.032-04:002017-03-21T18:32:01.032-04:00I have been reading your blog off and on over the ...I have been reading your blog off and on over the years and just wanted to say that I think that you are very brave in your honesty about how you feel right now. Virtual hugs to you as you be.Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07617113296994480336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007999093281954902.post-31425563555916436052017-03-21T18:26:28.274-04:002017-03-21T18:26:28.274-04:00I have had several "melfis" over the yea...I have had several "melfis" over the years. I could probably beat you on the looney scale, but who's really counting. We all need a good cry.....I, too, had one today when my children started posted silly pics of themselves as children, and I was forced to think about how fast the time has moved along and how much I sometimes long for those days back. Out of no where came lots of tears, and then I regrouped. I hope you have many laughs tonight at grocery guild, and regroup, and know that there are lots of us out here pulling for you and understanding all you are dealing with. Hugs and prayers!Pennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06289206422022694413noreply@blogger.com